Ladies, Ladies, Ladies! Listen up! There are a lot of traits we possess that are uncalled for and highly distasteful. We ignore them and fail to realize they’re actually the cause of our broken relationships.
Your partners may not feel comfortable telling us about such characteristics. Instead, they walk away from the relationship without a proper explanation and you find yourself wondering why. You may be cute, but you ain’t that cute. Sit up and take some notes on what may be hindering your progress.
1. Nagging: From morning till night, na only nagging you sabi. There is a difference between asking for something and continuous pestering. When you are asking for something or trying to express yourself in a decent manner, you elicit a reasonable response from the person you’re talking to. When your voice just becomes annoying to hear and can be easily ignored, you’re nagging. Continue...
2. Gold digging: Gold digging is more like a natural hobby nowadays. The majority of ladies just want to take whatever they can get their hands on from guys and use them to their advantage. It’s sad that some guys don’t realize this initially and actually waste their time and money and invest feelings in ladies that aren’t being reciprocated. When they realize it though, they’re quick to evict the unwanted tenant.
3. Overpowering personalities: Nothing is wrong with being an independent lady. No one is stopping you. The problem arises when you begin talking and fighting back like a man. You are a lady! I’m not saying a man should talk to you disrespectfully or degrade your value. But, if you constantly huff and puff at everything he says like you’re in the boxing ring, he will throw in the towel. Recognize his efforts and criticize him less. You can’t always be right.
4. Lack of intimacy: I’m not saying you have to have sex with everyone you meet in the hope of securing a relationship. There are other ways to be intimate with your man without having sex. Recreational, emotional and physical are just a few forms of intimacy. There has to be a healthy level of honesty, understanding and attention given to one another. Cooking a nice meal for your man, running him a warm bath or a simple kiss good morning are all signs of intimacy in a healthy relationship.
5. Insecurity: A lot of ladies are insecure about a number of things. It could be their looks, how content their man really is, the image they portray of their relationship etc. Men are instantly attracted to confident women. You don’t have to be the most eye-catching woman in the room, but a woman with a striking personality will naturally exude confidence and ultimately stand out in the crowd.
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